Category Archives: Apophenia

When You Need a Good Cry

Ever had a time when you needed or wanted to cry to release all those bottled up emotions? What do you do? Share on the comments. Here’s my new favorite video clip for just that occasion http://youtu.be/0qA6Pn3SFbE Advertisements

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What Trait Do You Value Most in a Friendship?

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Surgery – a Cinquain Poem

More loss, Is it coming? Another friend may die; Docs say it’s a one in ten chance. Don’t go.   I’ve had so much loss in my life lately. My closest friend and confidant is scheduled for surgery in less … Continue reading

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What To Do If the World Were Ending in 21 Days (Part II)

After pondering how I would spend my time knowing everything would be gone, I reflected upon deeper thoughts: Knowing the world isn’t ending in 21 days. Today I started stocking my display case at a local thrift/antique shop. I need … Continue reading

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What To Do If The World Were Ending in 21 Days? (Part One)

I just finished watching Seeking A Friend For The End of The World with the nice neighbor lady. A beautiful story of love, loss, and forgiveness for a rainy evening. Some thoughts passed my mind as I was watching. What … Continue reading

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An AHA Moment

Sometimes a revelation from a love provides clarity, and things make so much more sense. And sometimes that clarity can cause heartache. Even so, as a believer in truth, even when it hurts, I am thankful. Because knowing where you … Continue reading

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What’s the Shamanic Meaning?

Whenever I see a raptor, I feel good inside. Several friends call it a portent of good luck. I sometimes wonder if this is another form of apophenia, seeing patterns where none exist. Or Pavlov’s dog salivating at a bell….  … Continue reading

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