Category Archives: Dating


Blank The canvas of my romantic future Now whitewashed with despair Shall the previous paint bleed through Marring the portrait yet to be created? Inspired by Today’s “One Word Prompt” – Image Source Advertisements

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Holding On

This weekend I am completing my move. Only a year in the making. My mom, my son, Krys, and a few neighbors pitched in yesterday. Today Krys was going to keep helping, and tomorrow my mom again. Krys was giving … Continue reading

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Greatest Need in a Relationship

I’ve posted before about my wish list in a partner. Today ruminating about overall, what is my greatest need in a relationship. I believe I have distilled it down to this: Dear Love, I have done my best to survive … Continue reading

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Bonfire Alone

Last night my bonfire was alone, and very short. I was OK. Had a nice phone convo with a close friend I stopped actively spending time with after leaving Ex Al. She didn’t take sides, stayed friends with both of … Continue reading

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Cancer Sucks – A GoodBye

PolyBuddy got a whole new box of crayons today, and a whole new universe as his canvas. Cancer Sucks. I’m happy that I was a happy friend for him. One he could share frustrations with. I had shared a post … Continue reading

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Ramblings Not to Send

Dear Person I Want to be Close To, Do you ever share your feelings, insecurities, hopes and dreams with anyone? Do you have anyone that you confide in? Have you ever put your own self-protection aside for a shared dream? … Continue reading

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I know I’ve wanted to have a mono relationship for my long term future. If I partner with Krys, it would likely end up poly. He is excellent at compartmentalizing his life. There is another relationship poly has been seeping … Continue reading

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