Category Archives: polyamory

Selfish

I know I’ve wanted to have a mono relationship for my long term future. If I partner with Krys, it would likely end up poly. He is excellent at compartmentalizing his life. There is another relationship poly has been seeping … Continue reading

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I Can’t Believe I Didn’t Post This

Today’s post mentions Krys. Last I blogged about him was letting him go was in early January. (Here) I cant believe I neglected to blog about what came next…. I was in a bad place in my head and my … Continue reading

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Going From Poly to Mono

This is a strange journey. And one I am actually looking forward to seeing where it takes me. I had NEVER been mono wired, even when I tried to be when I was younger. When I was 18, I was … Continue reading

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Mixed Day

Today had good aspects and not so good. I guess that’s life. Writer getting the last item was good. I was able to be civil, not bringing up the money issue because I wanted a good emotional day myself. I … Continue reading

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Sometimes The Right Choice Hurts

I’m crying again, because being true to myself hurts too. I’ve posted several times in the past about a long-distance poly partner, Krys. I do still love him, and will cherish the times we had. He helped me see my … Continue reading

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Can I Avoid Synchronicity?

Rarely in a breakup is one person 100% at fault. With Writer, aside from the blatant issues that most definitely are his alone, there were other issues. Why did he tell me he could see only being with me physically … Continue reading

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Defining Myself Through Him

A buddy pointed out that I am in the habit of thinking of myself in terms of Writer.. Only now, of being without Writer. It was true. Codependency sucks. Not my monkey, repeat, not my monkey. Not my circus. I … Continue reading

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