Tag Archives: betrayal

I Hate What You Did To Me

Previously Unpublished Post  (PUP)- I wrote the post below three months ago and saved it as a draft. Time to dust it off and share. At the time I wrote this, my life revolved around mourning the loss of all … Continue reading

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Sometimes The Right Choice Hurts

I’m crying again, because being true to myself hurts too. I’ve posted several times in the past about a long-distance poly partner, Krys. I do still love him, and will cherish the times we had. He helped me see my … Continue reading

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Can I Avoid Synchronicity?

Rarely in a breakup is one person 100% at fault. With Writer, aside from the blatant issues that most definitely are his alone, there were other issues. Why did he tell me he could see only being with me physically … Continue reading

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A Small Oversight Hurt

Just shy of three months from discovery and having Writer move out was my birthday. He mentioned he was sad about not being there to celebrate with me. I was feeling sad too. I wrote  about having him join me … Continue reading

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Gratitude and Hope

“The old dreams were good dreams; they didn’t work out but I’m glad I had them.” -Robert James Waller The Bridges of Madison County

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What Makes It So Hard To Turn Away

Everyone who has been hurt, betrayed, lied to, cheated on, etc.., and remains in love with their partner faces the choice to stay, leave, or remain frozen in limbo. Not making a choice, is still making a choice by default. … Continue reading

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Should I Just Chuck It All and Walk Away… I Don’t want to

Today was a good day and a bad day. I had invited Writer to go for a walk in the woods with me. The leaves are past their peak colors, but still very beautiful. I knew they were beautiful in … Continue reading

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