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If I Had a Poly Do-Over

When it comes to my experiences in polyamory, the one big do-over I would ask for would to have been negotiating the secrecy/DADT the Ex Al insisted upon. Yes when it came to the military, it was a good idea … Continue reading

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I Was My Husband’s Secret Lover

Sound titillating? Alas, probably not what you were thinking. My (ex) husband Al and I were both in the service. Before our vows we had the monogamy and fidelity discussion, knowing how rare it was for spouses to remain physically … Continue reading

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