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My Experience Staying Safe Using Craigslist – part 1
Meeting anyone you have met online for any purpose can be scary. One local police department dedicated part of their parking lot to a video monitored online sales exchange location. I thought that was pretty cool, though it does nothing … Continue reading
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Chronic Pain
Constant chronic pain Physical and Emotional Who would notice Who would care If I disappeared tomorrow Don’t be sad tomorrow You didn’t care yesterday When I needed you When I begged for you
Posted in Poetry and Prose
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Medical Challenges
If you recall, I had thought I could be pregnant a couple months back, and wasn’t. Nausea, abdominal pain, fatigue, no period had continued. So follow up visit this week included CT scan and revealed Pelvic Congestion Syndrome (varicose veins … Continue reading
Posted in Rants
Tagged Abdominal pain, health insurance, Obamacare, ovarian varicose veins, pain, PCS
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The Losses Keep Piling Up
I hope to freaking god that Krys is my final loss for the near future. I may be stronger for the losses, but the lonely factor sure does pile up Tally for recent past (less than 5 years) Divorce. Death … Continue reading
Blank
Blank The canvas of my romantic future Now whitewashed with despair Shall the previous paint bleed through Marring the portrait yet to be created? Inspired by Today’s “One Word Prompt” – http://wp.me/p23sd-12cv Image Source
Posted in Dating, Poetry and Prose
Tagged betrayed, breaking up, dating, lost love, poetry, prose
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Holding On
This weekend I am completing my move. Only a year in the making. My mom, my son, Krys, and a few neighbors pitched in yesterday. Today Krys was going to keep helping, and tomorrow my mom again. Krys was giving … Continue reading
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Another Confirmation that I Don’t Matter
This week was ex Al’s birthday I reminded our son that his father would probably really appreciate at least a call. Why did I do that? On the day, I got a text meant for the ex from some family … Continue reading
When You Need a Good Cry
Ever had a time when you needed or wanted to cry to release all those bottled up emotions? What do you do? Share on the comments. Here’s my new favorite video clip for just that occasion http://youtu.be/0qA6Pn3SFbE
Posted in Bonfire Musings, Healing
Tagged cry, emotional release, healing, need to cry, want to cry
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My EMDR Journey 1
I started the preliminaries for EMDR. Haven’t gotten into the meat of it yet, however I’m very optimistic about it. Even with one session we have identified how interconnected are the events and situations that create triggers for me. This … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, child abuse, EMDR, healing, rape, Sex Addict, Sexual Offender
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Greatest Need in a Relationship
I’ve posted before about my wish list in a partner. Today ruminating about overall, what is my greatest need in a relationship. I believe I have distilled it down to this: Dear Love, I have done my best to survive … Continue reading