Monthly Archives: February 2016

[Rant] Image Credit & Textspeak

Posted on February 28, 2016 by Apophenias

I’m feeling like a bit of a snob this morning, and it bothers me. Once again I noticed a post where the author was kind enough to offer an image credit. Except the credit was to Google images  that means … Continue reading →

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I Hate What You Did To Me

Posted on February 27, 2016 by Apophenias

Previously Unpublished Post  (PUP)- I wrote the post below three months ago and saved it as a draft. Time to dust it off and share. At the time I wrote this, my life revolved around mourning the loss of all … Continue reading →

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How Goes the Healing – An Update

Posted on February 25, 2016 by Apophenias

3 months after Discovery Day I posted how I was doing. It is just over 6 months now, and I wanted to give an update to share with those newly discovering their own situations that it can get easier. Learning … Continue reading →

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Going From Poly to Mono

Posted on February 24, 2016 by Apophenias

This is a strange journey. And one I am actually looking forward to seeing where it takes me. I had NEVER been mono wired, even when I tried to be when I was younger. When I was 18, I was … Continue reading →

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Surgery – a Cinquain Poem

Posted on February 20, 2016 by Apophenias

More loss, Is it coming? Another friend may die; Docs say it’s a one in ten chance. Don’t go.   I’ve had so much loss in my life lately. My closest friend and confidant is scheduled for surgery in less … Continue reading →

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My Journey Through PTSD Continues

Posted on February 17, 2016 by Apophenias

It is amazing how unpredictable the effects of #PTSD can be. One moment I can be totally unaffected, as if the turmoil from my relationship with Writer and my childhood never existed, and the next moment frozen, unable to function … Continue reading →

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That Little Green Dot Torments Me

Posted on February 10, 2016 by Apophenias

Dating again, seeking a new to me dating and hopefully more partner after almost 23 years of not having the dating someone unknown to me experience is daunting to say the least. The electronic age of dating has some very … Continue reading →

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Mixed Day

Posted on February 1, 2016 by Apophenias

Today had good aspects and not so good. I guess that’s life. Writer getting the last item was good. I was able to be civil, not bringing up the money issue because I wanted a good emotional day myself. I … Continue reading →

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